In recent decades, attitudes towards moving into a retirement home in Hungary have changed. Previously, the move was often imposed by families as a last resort, leaving residents feeling abandoned. Today, however, many older people are taking control of their own future and choosing their own residence while they are still able to. Even so, as people age, ‘their personality traits tend to deepen alongside their wrinkles’. Reduced social interaction and loneliness often prompt greater reflection, bringing past experiences into sharper focus, both good and bad. This can be challenging, particularly when it is accompanied by relocation to a new home. Responses vary according to individuals, but many approach it with resilience and optimism. In Hungarian retirement homes, carnival celebrations offer a vivid expression of this spirit, revealing how engagement and joy can shape a fulfilling later life.